She doesn’t want to align herself with a wimp or with a guy who crumbles under social pressure because it’s not a useful trait in a guy. A lot of guy mistakenly go through life thinking, “If I can just look good enough, then women will like me and won’t mind that I’m nervous or don’t know what to say.” Yet, it doesn’t work that way. She doesn’t work for the school, she’s a volunteer. I’ve seen her get in dozens of confrontations with people, including me, because her rules are ridiculous. She’s told me straight-up that it’s the only thing in her life she has control over so she goes way over the top. She’s the worst.” 13. The final straw.